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I Think I Love My Wife (2007)
IMDB rating: 5.40
Plot: Brenda wears comfortable, cotton panties; Nikki wears shear, lacy thongs. Richard Cooper is in the middle, with a good job in Manhattan, a house in the suburbs, and two cute children with Brenda, his intelligent, good-looking wife, who’s a teacher. But there’s no sex in this seven-year marriage, so Richard’s bored. Into the mix walks Nikki, a sexy, sassy, single friend he’s not seen in years. Nikki has problems and finds a reason to stop at his office every day. He tries to help, they have some fun, and he doesn’t mention Nikki to Brenda. His work and reputation suffer. Is he about to scratch the seven year itch? What choices does Richard have?
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Directors: Rock Chris
Actors: Rock Chris,Buscemi Steve,Herrmann Edward,Williams Michael K.,Smith Stephen A.,Pierce Wendell,Comedy,Drama,Romance,
Relationship problem. Please read!!! My husband is a jerk….?
First off. My family consists of my son, husband and me. I am the only one working. he stays home and watches our son. He treats me like shit. Hes always grumpy with me and never showing affection. I do too much for him I’m so tired of all this. It’s starting to make me feel like i don’t want to be with him anymore. Like I’m losing love for him. And i always tell him but he has excuses after excuses as to why he acts like that. Any other man would love to have me as a wife because i am independent. But if i am the one that is making the money cooking and cleaning, at least treat me right. What should i do?
I try to show him affection but he makes it seem like he doesn’t want me to. he kind of brushes me off.
I understand that i am the bread winner and he is not. But i never remind him of that. I don’t say anything to put him down. All I want is for him to treat me decent. I want him to stop being so grumpy with me all the time. But I can’t talk to him he doesnt listen
Put your child in day care and put him on notice. I’d give him three months to find a job (but only if he’s really looking) and about five minutes to quit being a j@ck@ss.
ouragon | Feb 05, 2010
I would tell him to make himself useful. He needs to be AT LEAST working or doing the household chores. And stop waiting for him to show you affection - show him affection if you want it.
Happy-2 | Feb 05, 2010
Thinking in the reverse, perhaps he is acting that way because you are the "bread winner" for the family and for some guys that makes us feel like much less of a man. With those feelings depression, guilt, shame and a myriad of other negative feelings surface. He may not realize that this is what is directing his actions.
Why does he not work? Does he want to work? My advice would be to find some professional guidance in the form of a marriage counselor who could help both of you sort out your feelings and actions.
Cliff R | Feb 05, 2010
Sometimes when your partner is unhappy, you have to look at yourself. Are you constantly reminding him of how he doesn’t have a job and you do? Are you always keeping score of everything you do and he doesn’t? Are you unhappy and saying he is to blame? All these things will make your partner turn into a jerk.
Even though you are the one with the job and the one doing most of the work, your partner doesn’t need to be reminded of that.
Life is unpredictable. There could come a time when your husband has a job and you don’t. Treat him like you would want to be treated in such a situation.
Tanya | Feb 05, 2010
The next time he gives you a ‘reason’ or excuse for his behaviour tell him "Im not interested in your ‘reasons’, Im interested in what WE are going to do about it, because I dont want to live like this, and I wont".
Remember too that if he is not working his ego is probably a little bruised about not providing and you working instead of him. Also, I know for myself that the monontony of being a stay at home parent can easily cause depression because of the lack of mental stimulation and interaction with other adults. … talk to him about that and see if you guys can set a date night or something to refocus as a couple…. also, if he is a stay at home parent of a little one, dont forget that while you are working… he isnt exactly sitting home with his feet up, and remind him that while you are out… you arent whoopin’ it up with your girlfriends or out at the spa… you are working.
JENNIFER M | Feb 05, 2010
when you say,"any other man would love to have you as a wife" i see tons of red flags. since the ONLY one in the world that happens to be married to you can’t stand you. so i’m going to officially call bullshlt on your biased story.
Jery E | Feb 05, 2010
He may be depressed about his situation and taking it out on you because you are doing everything he wants and should be doing. Sit down and have a talk with him, let him know how you feel and that you won’t take care of him and then be treated the way he treats you. If he can’t change and help out more, then tell him that you are going to be a change real soon, without him!!
Gina | Feb 05, 2010
Well from the outside looking INTO this situation I would say lst of all you thinking him a JERK is rather harsh. He is a MAN and perhaps his ego and self image is faltering with his WIFE having to take care of HIM and make the MONEY and he might feel useless and not so MANLY right now. Men’s EGO are sensitive things whether we like it or not.
Second - isn’t HE caring for your child ALSO of value? Seems like it to me. BUT what you both clearly need is more open honest communicating and less accusing, whining and moaning about all the NEEDS you aren’t getting met by eachother etc. Everybody needs to chill out and face the not so pleasant feelings and matters in your LIFE right now and swallow your pride(s) and be the one who SHOWS the affection, expresses the LOVE, extends the understanding and forgiveness so that you are traveling in the right DIRECTION together. Surely you didn’t get married thinking life would always be peachy & perfect or that HE would be either. Marriage is about weathering life’s STORMS together, thick & thin - you know the drill. SO - be positive, be active, be loving, HELP eachother through this STORM you are in. It is better to ride it through together then struggle through it only to be ALONE when it is through….right? : ) of course right!
LindaLoo | Feb 05, 2010
It could be one of those macho things where he feels as if he should be the breadwinner and it’s demeaning for a man to be looking after the child. Also if he is at home because he lost his job or cant find a job, or even because you earned more and it made sense for him to stay at home instead of you that might be a serious blow to his ego, and he could genuinely be depressed. I’m not saying those things excuse his behaviour, but if they explain it, and you want things to improve, then they can be worked on. The alternative seems to be that you split up, but you’d still be earning, this time to pay a stranger to care for your son, so I’m not sure that’s a great alternative. Could you have a serious talk with your husband, without blaming him, about how he feels and what can be done about it? Maybe couples counselling, where a sympathetic, objective person helps you sort things out would help. Possibly also he should see his doctor to check that he isn’t ill or depressed, too.
I know this probably seems like you are still being the one who has to do the work, make the effort, and organize things, but really, being a single parent isn’t a lot of fun either, so it might be the best option for you in the end.
Magenta | Feb 05, 2010
It takes two people to make a marriage relationship work. It also takes two people to screw one up. Are you his wife or his enabler? Judging from the wording of your question, one wonders if perhaps the two of you might not be getting from the relationship that which each of you deserves from the other.
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The Big E | Feb 05, 2010
Take the kid for a drive. Don’t go back.
Visualize Whirled Peas | Feb 05, 2010
Ouragon hit the nail on the head!!! As long as he s watching the child he has an excuse to stay home. I’d fix that quick!
M_R_S | Feb 05, 2010
And you married this guy, why? And you chose him as the father of a child why?
Honey, you have two babies you are raising.
Stay if you like it, leave when you are sick of it. This is nothing your son ought to have as a role model…. he’ll grow up to think, this is the way women are treated, and thus it is okay for him to treat them this way.
Better he come from a broken home, and be raised in one.
JR | Feb 05, 2010
